Preparing for the Big Event

So you've taken the step and registered for an online dating event. It's soon to start, and here you are wondering what you.ve done. What were you thinking? Soon you'll be faced with a series of strangers and expected to make idle chit-chat for three whole minutes!

Never fear! Take a few deep breaths and follow this advice!

Be Confident

Meeting new people can be a nerve-wracking experience, but it might help to remember that they're probably nervous too. Remember the good things about yourself and be prepared to emphasize them. You can think of it like a job interview: go in knowing you're the best person for the job. Confidence is contagious, and if you believe in yourself, it will come across loud and clear!

Look Your Best

Remember, you only have three minutes to make an impression, and the first thing people will notice is how you look. If you're using a picture, choose a flattering one. If you have a webcam, take a bit of time with your appearance. Conversation and personality are important, but let's be honest: everyone is looking for someone they're attracted to.

Find a Private Place

On the surface of it, it may sound like a great idea to have a gaggle of girlfriends along for moral support, but it will only interfere with your ability to be yourself. If you don't live alone, find a private room and lock the door. Borrow a friend's house, kick your roommates out, get a babysitter . whatever you need to do to be sure you'll be yourself without self-consciousness.

Eliminate Interruptions

Turn off the phone. Don't answer the doorbell. Now is not the time to make a cup of tea. Remember, even though you're in the privacy of your home, this is an actual event you're attending. No one will be very impressed if you spend two of your three minutes with them chatting on your cell phone or letting the dog outside.

Have a Goal In Mind

Why are you doing this? Are you looking for new friends? A few casual dates that might lead to more? The girl of your dreams? Whatever your reason is, know it. You don't have to share it with anyone else, but you'll feel more focused if you know why you're doing this!

Be Prepared

Don't go in expecting your partner to do all the work. Have some questions and conversation starters in mind to get things rolling. Three minutes can be an excruciatingly long time if you have nothing to talk about, but get the conversation going and you'll be saying, .What? Time's up?. before you know it.

And if you don't know what to say? We can help you there, too!